This has been mentioned in The Game, Mystery's teachings, David DeAngelo's materials, as well as in many books covering topics like influence and personal growth...
If you say or do something with enough conviction and authority, no one will question it. This makes the difference between a meek "hey, uhmm... can I have your number?" and "hey, give me your number!"... or better yet, "hey give me your phone" then you dial your own number and let it ring.... you can even take it further, get her phone, and add yourself as "Future ex husband" or "Sex God" in her contacts list. Ballsy, but with enough conviction you'll pull this off and she won't question it. Hell, she'll give you points for having the guts to do something like that. You don't wait for permission, you live in your own reality where you give yourself the authority to do whatever you want!
Having conviction makes you out to be a natural leader. Picture yourself stranded on an island with 10 strangers. If one says, "Ok, you 2 will look for firewood, you 4 will look for food, while you others build a shelter" etc, you get the point. No one has voted that person into a leadership position, but it's clear from his self-given authority and conviction that people will do as he says, and they will respect him for taking charge! People like that will naturally rise to be the leader of the group, and trust me, that gets girl wet! Like Mystery states, if you are the the leader of men - the women will follow.
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