Positive Affirmations

here's a quick lesson on positive affirmations... these are little sayings or mottos you can live by or repeat in your head over and over. sounds silly, yes, but over time you'll start adopting these mindsets into your daily life and you will notice change. you'll have straighter posture, more confident tone and body language, you will ooze authority, you will shit diamonds. ok, that last one was a little much, but i guarantee you the other ones will happen! ok, here we go...

• "I am indifferent to the outcome" This is VERY powerful. Women and men will realize that nothing will faze you because you embody action, not reaction. Why? because you're indifferent to the outcome.
• "I live in my reality, I am a cause in this world" Again, very powerful. Once you adopt this viewpoint, you will grow an aura of natural confidence around you. Women can smell confidence from miles away, so this one will have them eating out of your hand.
• "I think sex is great and I have no hang-ups about it" Women *love* testing guys with sexual comments. She will try to hi-jack the conversation by saying something like 'I give great blow jobs'. any other guy would stutter and go "oh...wow...that's... you're awesome" WRONG! you just failed her shit test. All you have to do is give her a sly smile, look her straight in the eyes and say 'cool' or 'respect' and move on to the next topic. Do not let a woman's sexuality threaten or intimidate you. Ever!
• "I am not needy, I keep my power for me" Everyone knows (and hates) a needy guy/girl. They are the energy vampires. You feel sorry for them because they always come around, hovering around, wanting something, wasting your time. They have no spine on their own and everyone around them ends up using their kindness for their own benefit. No bueno! you do NOT want to be one of those dweebs. Women are repulsed by needy guys; hell, they'll break up with a guy if he starts acting all wussy and needy.
• "I am in control of my emotional self; outside events don't destabilize me" This is a *great* mindset to have, it communicates that you have a very solid and balanced core. You're not one to freak out at the slightest hint of trouble. Where dweebs shy away from confrontation, you take charge and you deal with it, because you are the alpha male. The tribal leader (alpha male) needs to take care and protect the people around and below him.
• "I could but I won't" This will get them every time. Have you ever wanted to text or call a girl right after meeting her? Or do stuff for her just because she asked you to? Or work late because you think it'll make your boss happy? With this mindset, you will delay your gratification and people will notice it. You are not a 'yes' man, you live in a life of abundance and you don't have time for everyone's pettiness.

Use one, use them all, it doesn't really matter. Point is that these affirmations are supposed to enrich your life. Rob has one that I particularly like, he told me his motto is "Make moves." How much simpler can it get than that? Before the approach, I like telling myself "I can do no wrong" and it works! Pick one that you like and rehearse it in your mind over and over until it clicks.

(Credit to David DeAngelo for his previous work on this)